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Organizing for Special Needs Clients

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Some of my experience with organizing comes from assisting the special needs community here in Austin. I have worked with amazing families, the hardest working parents I’ve met. However, their priorities are with their children, and so housekeeping and organizing duties fall by the wayside.

The societal pressure to maintain a “clean” and “organized” household is strong. I placed those words in quotes because none of us can truly define what is considered a clean and organized house.

A wonderful blogger I follow, Rob Gorski, is a father of three boys with autism. He is honest about life caring for his sons and his ill wife. I tip my hat off to him – he’s doing an amazing job.

Rob had a short but amazing article several years ago about the condition of his house. It was a mess, but he was OK with that. Caring for his sons was a priority, and if the dishes weren’t washed right away, it was not a big deal.

We all have our shortcomings (I love dark chocolate), but to feel pressured by others to do things that we cannot due to time constraints is wrong. But what can be done is to create shortcuts for the challenges special needs families face.

So, my gentle reader, here is the shortcut I offer to you. I would like to introduce Carolyn Dalgliesh. She has combined her research of sensory issues and organization experience to create an incredible system that can benefit everyone. Her book, The Sensory Child Gets Organized, has given me the tools to successfully assist some of my clients.

I hope this helps. As always, send any comments to AbilityHousehold@gmail.com . Thank you.

chemical sensitivities

What Are You Wearing? Tips for Housekeeping Pros Helping Chemically Sensitive Clients

My work as a housekeeper has lead me to some very fulfilling assignments. I’ve assisted hoarders, special needs families, and the chronically ill. However, it is those clients who are allergy and chemically sensitive that are the most challenging to help. I will explain my history with this group and how I successfully assisted my clients with their unique cleaning needs.

One of my first assignments was with a terminally ill cancer patient who wished to remain at home as long as possible. Sara, as I will call her, was battling a rare form of blood cancer for almost ten years. Her small, frail body had withstood the various chemotherapy and radiation treatments, but her immune system could no longer fight natural infective or synthetic agents. If she ventured outside during a day of high allergen count, or if she caught a whiff of bug spray, she would be bedridden for a few days. She feared the common cold or flu would kill her.

My duties were simple: washing dishes, sweeping, moping, wiping down counters, and making the bed. Her requests weren’t extraordinary, but her prerequisites were exact and nonnegotiable.

Sara’s nose was like a hound dog. In spite of her requirements and my adherence to no perfumes, fragrant soaps or shampoos, I was in the penalty box my first day of work. I used a commercial brand “sensitive” laundry detergent that wasn’t fragrance free. I worked in one room while she waited in another, shouting her requests to me. She suggested baking soda for my work clothes, so I complied.

My second day at work was better – I could tell she was genuinely happy to see me, not just because I was cleaning her home, but because my presence would not be an issue.

I do not have a background in chemistry, but I do know through trial and error what products irritate and effect some clients. Here is how I prepare before arriving at a sensitive home.

My food choices change right before an assignment. I avoid strong smelling foods or those with garlic, onion, pickles, etc. I stick with simple salads, fruit, and steamed vegetables.

I prefer Crystal Body Deodorant, the roll-on product, for my underarms. There are no aluminum ingredients or fragrances to this product. It does require several applications daily, especially if going to multiple assignments during the Texas summer.

For haircare, I use J.R. Liggett’s Original Formula Shampoo Bar. I do not apply any hair gel or other sprays. I wear a ball cap to keep my hair out of trouble, or I wear a bandana for my most sensitive patients.

This job is not a beauty contest, so I avoid any makeup, lip gloss, nail polish, or lotions before I head out to an assignment.

I put on my cleaning clothes right before I leave my home. I am fine with using plain baking soda for my work clothes. There are many reasons why homemade laundry detergent doesn’t work, and many online articles explaining why. I wear the same clothes for my assignments, so if they’re not perfectly clean, I’m ok with that.

I do not figure out if my clients are certain they have sensitivities. If my clients say their body reacts negatively to certain scents or chemicals, I believe them. My goal is to provide the best cleaning service possible, reassuring my clients that their interaction with me will be a pleasant experience. It’s the least I can do, because the last thing I want to hear from my clients is, “What are your wearing?!?”.

Please note: I am not compensated by any person or company when I mention a certain product.